Phone sex has been around for a very long time. It started as a way for men and, at times, women to have a safer and cheaper way to achieve sexual release. Over time, couples in long distance relationships became aware of how beneficial it could be when it came to keeping the home fires burning even though they may have been separated by thousands of miles. Phone sex isn’t quite as popular as it used to be due to the introduction of home computers and the Internet, but it can still be quite useful in working some magic to bring a dying relationship back to life.
There’s more than just one way to use phone sex to spice things up. One way is to leave each other suggestive to downright nasty little messages through the day by using voice mail. If this starts early in the morning and goes on all day, by the time the two of you are reunited that evening, you’ll be so excited that you may not even make it to the bedroom. Since these messages are meant only for one person to hear, you can say anything you want. Little messages such as “I can’t wait to wrap my mouth around you” is likely going to cause a rise in interest.
While these messages are very effective, there’s another way that can work even better. This one is perfect for when one of you has been away for some reason and you’re about to be reunited after a few days or weeks apart from each other. Usually, couples are in contact by phone when they’re apart for more than a few hours. Use those phone conversations to let your partner know how much you miss him or her. Don’t hold back on how aroused you are at just thinking of what the two of you will do together when the absent partner returns home. By the time the two of you are together once more, the heat will be so high that you’ll probably need to keep a fire extinguisher nearby.
Another way to use phone sex to rekindle that old fever in your relationship can be done without ever leaving your house. All it takes is two telephones. These can be landlines or cell phones. Either works fine. You need to be in separate rooms, of course, for it to work the way it is meant to. Once you’re both settled in with your phones, you need to let go of all inhibitions and use words to excite and seduce each other. Think of it as verbal foreplay.
Something you might want to decide on ahead of time is whether or not you will be taking the phone call to its natural conclusion or not. You may choose to let the phone call heat things up between you and then meet in the bedroom for a very happy ending. That probably makes the most sense if you’re trying to ignite those sparks that will keep you interested in each other for a long time to come. You might also decide to switch things around. But, again, the choice is yours.
When using phone sex as a method of injecting some missing magic into your marriage, the sky is the limit. Take your imagination to a totally new and hot level to see what can happen.
Have you ever considered writing up a sexual contract with your lover? Perhaps now’s the time to reinvigorate your sex life.