Here are some excellent books and other resources for spicing up your sex life.

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Books on Sex

Guide to Getting it On, Paul Joannides, Goofy Foot Press; 6th Edition edition, 2009

I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide, Dorian Solot, Da Capo Press, 2007

She Comes First: the Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, Ian Kerner, William Morrow Paperbacks; 1 Reprint edition, 2010

Books on Relationships & Sexual Chemistry

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion, John Gray, Harper Perennial; Reprint edition, 2005

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence: Harper Perennial; Reprint edition, 2007

The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion, Gina Odgen, Trumpeter; 1 edition, 2008

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships, David Snarch, W. W. Norton & Company; Reprint edition, 2009

Web Resources

The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) – find a sex therapist, counsellor or educator near you.


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Spicy Stories

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