How long has it been since you and your partner have just suddenly looked at each other and were filled with instantaneous lust? It may not have been quite as long as you thought it was when you first began trying to answer the question. What is probably long ago are the times that you acted on the impulse. So take a second and think back to the last time when you and your partner seemed to put out crackling sexual energy to each other. It may have been a very long time ago, but you’ll remember at least one occasion when you revisit that past.
Once you’ve got that occasion firmly in your mind, remember how you handled it. Did you and your partner give into that instant feeling of desire, or did you simply laugh it off, tamp it down and go on with whatever you were doing? Depending on how long you’ve been together, you may have taken advantage of the chance to have a quickie on the spot or you might have simply ignored the urge and moved on like it never happened.
Looking at this in the present day should bring a twinge of regret for letting that moment pass by if that’s what you and your partner did. You should have seized the moment and backed up against a wall or thrown yourselves into the middle of the living room floor! The point is that you should have taken full advantage of the feelings and simply gone for it!
Spontaneity is one of the main things that will keep a relationship fresh, new and exciting. When it comes to spontaneous sexual combustion, you should take it as it comes. In short, never turn down an opportunity to enjoy each other, not even if you have set dates in a Marriage Sex Contract.
Obviously, there are a couple of rules that need to be followed so that you don’t get arrested for lewd behavior or something along those lines. But those are pretty simple. Don’t have sex in full view of others in public. This might just be the main rule because, if you can find a way to have sex in public without being seen, go for it! There are places that are semi-public where you can manage a sexual encounter without being seen. For instance, if you’ve got an apartment with a balcony or patio, it’s possible to engage in a bit of outdoor sex.
The point is to never let go of an opportunity to indulge in a pleasurable encounter with your partner. Some of the hottest, wildest and most intimate sexual encounters have come from giving into the moment and being spontaneous. This should have nothing to do with any agreement you’ve made in scheduling sex. Cooking a meal or vacuuming a floor can certainly wait for the few minutes that it will take to engage in a bit of spontaneous carnal delight. There are few things that are more important than you and your partner being together.
It may not seem immediately apparent as to how spontaneous sex can keep that spark going in your relationship but, when you think about what this accomplishes, you’ll understand a lot better. Spontaneity gives you the freedom to give into desires whenever they hit. This is what will keep those home fires burning as long as you want.